The mistake every parent makes: buying a glove your five-year-old can barely close. You think you’re being smart. You’re actually making her hate the game.

The size rule Go to a sporting goods store. Ask for the smallest glove they have. Then go one size up. A five-year-old needs an 8.5 to 9-inch glove. Not 7.5. Not “junior.” The physics are real: if her hand can’t fit, her thumb can’t move, and she can’t catch anything.

What to look for Leather. Not synthetic. Leather breaks in. Synthetic stays stiff. You want break-in because that glove is going to come home covered in dirt and grass three times a week. Leather forgives that.

Get a padded palm. She’s going to get hit in the hand before she gets comfortable. Padding helps.

The lacing Don’t let the laces stay loose. When you buy it, take it to a sporting goods store and ask them to tighten the heel. Most of them will do it free. A loose glove is useless.

The investment Seventy to one hundred dollars. That’s the range. If you’re spending more, you’re buying resale value she won’t use. If you’re spending less, you bought synthetic, and we’re back to the stiff problem.

What’s coming She’s going to outgrow this glove in two years. Don’t feel bad. That’s the system. She’ll be ready for a 10-inch glove at seven. You can buy used then. Someone’s kid aged out and needs to move it.

The catch A good glove makes her want to use it. She’ll sleep with this thing. She’ll take it to the grocery store if you let her. That’s the goal.

Start with the right size and the right leather. The rest is love.